I believe,

healthy relationship is a relationship which I can grow emotionally, intellectually and psychologically.

I feel secure when we are together or even when we are apart. I can expect loyalty as I would return the same. I'd receive adequate amount of attention, just so I can feel that yes, that person loves me. However, if I am in a relationship that makes me suffocates - insyaAllah I won't stop the sillaturahim (as Allah forbids it). I'd adjust to it accordingly. I'd just go with the flow.

So now, I'd just go with the flow.